Married & eCheating
August 16th
2005
Bill Mitchell, L.P.I.
www.billmitchellpi.com
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Almost coincidentally, Martin’s boss passes
the cubicle with a routine welcome. “Oh
not bad Paul, thanks for asking… Man that was
close! I can’t believe what I’m doing.
I’m married; what am I crazy; I’ve got so much
to lose. What would the kids do if they
found out?” Martin asks himself.
Unfortunately, Martin yields to his desires
and a rendezvous devised. His next business trip
provides the perfect alibi. He will meet
his chosen “eCheater” at a nearby convention
hotel. Michelle remains clueless.
But wait, “eCheating” serves a compelling
purpose, true? Just listen to one slogan
“When Monogamy becomes Monotony.” This
catchphrase conjures up a sense of justification
or reason. It includes not just a sex
theme, but a sense of fellowship.
Does marriage end when it’s unexciting?
Is in fact adultery the answer?
These new dreadful alliances would lead you
to believe it is!
I am deeply troubled these “eCheating”
businesses are flourishing! Isn’t it time
we put an end to them? How? What can
YOU do about them?
- Be proactive.
- Get informed.
- Search adultery keywords for banner ads.
- Learn these “ECheating” sites by name.
- Search computer history for visits to
them.
- Install spy ware on home PC – yours of
course.
- Keep an eye on credit cards statements.
- Monitor computer usage.
- Paying attention to your relationship.
- Fight for your marriage and spouse – seek
help.
- Don’t use God or the Bible as a weapon in
confrontations.
- Therapy sessions don’t work if you are
forcing them.
- Don’t require your spouse to go to therapy
– it will deliberately fail after a few
sessions and be used against you.
- Safeguard your homes and kids from the
internet.
- Make time to watch the eHighway carefully
for those hazardous detours.
- Communicate better; be more affectionate,
appreciative, available, accepting and
affirming.
- Be positive, attractive and irresistible.
- Consider a make over if necessary.
Top private investigator
Bill Mitchell
recently appeared on the Dr. Phil Show and is
the author of "The More You Know--Getting the
Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a
Troubled Relationship".
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