LPI's point of view

There is a saying that goes something like this, “If you don’t think your partner is cheating on you, they might be.  If you are beginning to suspect your partner is cheating on you, they probably are.  If you think your partner is cheating on you, they definitely are.”  While it may sound extreme, it might not be that far off. This past weekend I read a poll that found 41% of the people surveyed had cheated on their partner.  68% of the same people polled said they had been cheated on in the past. As a licensed private investigator who specializes in matrimonial cases and spouse checks, I can tell you that we confirm our client’s suspicions around 90% of the time.  That number would probably rise another 5-8% if the client had a larger budget to work with.

If someone calls my office because they think their spouse is cheating, I tell them they are.  Oh it would be nice if we found out more husbands really did have to work late or that suspicious number that keeps calling your wife’s cell phone really was just a friend.  But we don’t.  Very rarely am I able to tell my client good news, and by good news I mean that there is no sign of an affair.  I needed to clarify what good news is because to many of my clients good news is that we caught their husband / wife / girlfriend cheating.  No I’m not joking; many people feel a great sense of relief and joy when we can confirm their suspicions.  They feel this way because they no longer have that great looming doubt pushing down on their shoulders.  The constant denial and twisting around of facts that goes on during this tumultuous time in a relationship is enough to make anyone feel crazy.  Are you looking too deeply at things?  Are you reading too much into this?  You’ll continue to doubt yourself even though in your heart and in your gut you know something is wrong.  Intuition is a strong thing and it’s usually right.  When we obtain proof of an affair, it provides many of our clients the peace of mind they were so desperately looking for.  Then they are then in a much better state of mind to deal with the situation at hand.  They can finally stop all the self doubting and find some solace that they were right, they weren’t crazy, they were feeling this way for a legitimate reason.

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